My favourite broken heart quotes

Many writers and poets have suffered a broken heart. Sometimes they have expressed it in beautiful and powerful words...

My best broken heart quotes for you:

I don’t know why they call it heartbreak. It feels like every other part of my body is broken too.
- Missy Altijd

“God can heal a broken heart, but He has to have all the pieces.”
- Author Unknown

“To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful.”
- Bess Myerson

“Love is unconditional, relationships are not.”
- Grant Gudmundson

“Sadness flies away on the wings of time.”
- Jean de La Fontaine

“It hurts to breathe because every breath I take proves I can't live without you.”
- Author Unknown

“God is closest to those with broken hearts.”
- Jewish Saying

“Sadness flies on the wings of the morning and out of the heart of darkness comes the light.”
- Jean Giraudoux

“Sometimes, when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated.”
- Lamartine

“Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears.”
- Marcus Aurelius

“...Lost in your heart, lost in your eyes
Lost every day, no map to follow
Entire days, weeks, a blur
Flickers of light, in the darkness,
Only to be enveloped in shadows once more...”

- Peter Winstanley

“In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing.”
- Mignon McLaughlin

“What is the opposite of two? A lonely me, a lonely you.”
- Richard Wilbur

“A life with love will have some thorns, but a life without love will have no roses.”
- Author Unknown

“Have you ever been hurt and the place tries to heal a bit, and you just pull the scar off of it over and over again.”
- Rosa Parks

“I hate the day, because it lendeth light
To see all things, but not my love to see.”

- Edmund Spenser

“Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go.”
- Author Unknown

“If we must part forever,
Give me but one kind word to think upon,
And please myself with, while my heart's breaking.”

- Thomas Otway

“Walking, working, barely breathing
My thoughts, far away
Heart aching, mind racing
Sleep does not come easily, nor last long...”

- Peter Winstanley

“If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.”
- Unknown Author

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Broken heart quotes can give some relief and help you think over. If you have recently broken up, maybe these words can help you find the strength to do something about it.

Getting your partner back is something many people have achieved, even in hopeless situations. In this blog, I will present you with some tips and advice which work wonderfully...

Sunday, September 18, 2011

"Hard to get" attitude for broken hearts

For those of you who have never heard about the "hard to get" conduct, you should know this is a fantastic way of arousing interest from anybody you wish to get. In the case of a break up, it can even be more powerful. Basically, the idea is to put in some volatility and mystery in your conduct. Naturally, you should not become totally impossible to follow or understand, because this would be as damaging as being too predictable or available. If it becomes too hard for your ex to be with you, he/she will leave and look for someone else. Being hard to get works substantially because by acting so, you increase your value and do not look as someone needy. You also become a challenge for other people, because they feel they cannot easily control you. Like with any challenge, this sparks off excitement and desire, which is a necessary constituent in a relationship.

When trying to get your ex back, you should also be different from what you were in your previous relationship. You ex must feel that he/she missed something the first time. You must exhibit some characteristics that will make him/her tick and be interested. For example, you can dress a little differently, with well chosen clothes that will heighten your appearance. Or if you are a woman, and did not wear makeup previously, perhaps this is the right time to give it a try. Go to a specialized store and ask for advice. For men, try some new fragrance. This sort of change can look trivial, but this will actually be noticed immediately. The whole idea is to spark off a renewed interest from your ex, and to show him/her that you are actually a much more appealing person than they previously felt.

Unpredictability is also a very significant constituent. Your ex should never be able to imagine what you are going to do or say. If you are too predictable, you do not supply a sense of mystery and you are not a challenge either. This is the best way to make your ex drop off any interest in you, and he/she will not wish to pursue a relationship with you once more. You must think out of the box and get more dynamic. If your ex broke up with you, chances are that you were a sort of inactive and "easy" person. To get your ex back, it is necessary to prove him/her that you are no more the unexciting person you once were, but rather somebody with secret resources and dynamic behavior.

Be careful however not to become vain and selfish. You should think of the hard to get attitude as a way to merit the time of your ex, by providing him/her with excitement and challenge. The best way to act the correct way is to try to figure out what kind of person you would like to be with if you were in your ex's shoes. You would probably not wish to be with someone tiresome who always agree with you, but chances are that a too egocentric and hard person would likewise make you run away. So, try to introduce some surprise, but remain courteous. Do not give too much, and let your ex slowly discover you again. He/she must sense that you are now someone who must be merited, and that going back in a relationship with you would be much more exciting than previously.


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