If you would like to date your ex again after a break up, you should first gauge your feelings. If you are not certain this is actually what you desire, take some time to think over, or try to have a couple of other dates first - this will tell you if your ex is really the one you want. If you are absolutely sure, then go on. It may be truly rewarding in case of success. You will both find some relief, and enjoying time together again is the best way to take a fresh start.
One of the greatest errors is to make this date an act of despair. This has no chance to work, as no one can be appealed to somebody desperate. On the contrary, too much assurance can hurt too. Do not rush and take time to figure out the feelings of your ex. He/she may still be hesitant, and things should go easy to avoid wrecking everything. The best attitude is to feel comfortable within yourself. You should have overcome any anger or bad feelings.
On the other hand, good things of the past should be recollected and used as a way to initiate good feelings during the date. Memories have great power, be it in a negative or positive way, so that you should concentrate on positive ones only. You should also make sure that your ex is having a good time with you. However, don't expect too much too rapidly. This is a fresh seduction process, and it may take some time, especially given your past troubles. So, sit back, and try to be as attractive and positive as you can.
Linda
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